MATE THAT WOULD NOT OUR SPOUSE MARRIAGE?

I think couples who married her soul mate ... it's not necessarily vice versa, Jodoh not necessarily be realized in a marriage. Or when they got married and then divorced are said to not be married? Why did it happen?1. Intervention of Satan / Jinn2. Human stupidity and ignorance of his own.

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MATE THAT WOULD NOT OUR SPOUSE Marriage

Mate is a thing unseen, but when a man can live to pure value, then he will be on show soul mate. Although people who we know as Jodoh we also do not necessarily want us to invite married. All is not like us only with prayer angan2 Istiqarah then "seolah2" we are given clues to determine Jodoh us. Though the decision was the product of the liver or Lust Fury us, because we already have a sense of love with the intention that we org. Well when we live it up on the stage of marriage then something happened off-we want, we end up blaming God / God, but this is not HIS choice, for when choosing option (match) where we are still overwhelmed by Lust Fury, and it is purely the choice ofoption (Lust Fury) our own.So instead of teaching Istiqarahnya Prayer is less true, but this is purely from our unpreparedness in laying out the heart, feeling, and desire us to be able to "Pick up God's opinion", so it is not worth our thinking bernegative to Allah / God, which is our true that less can run it properly. Actually it's not necessary diterawang Jodoh, fortune, or by pengasihan, pellets, etc.. If we walk according to nature and learn to surrender to Allah / God properly, so instead we will be more accurate in determining mate as a life companion.Mate Merging of the two hearts was not different, but Unify a heart split in two. So the lack of one, the other can help and complement. So in Jodoh each have a task that must bear its own according to his nature / allotted task as what his position, whether as a wife or a husband (if indeed it has Jodoh be united in wedlock rope). And all swore as well as his sworn before Allah / God. Love so on the basis of Raga, sense, soul, soul to the love of his life all disujudkan in Allah / God. Therefore Love to Wife / Husband is a reflection of Love to God, my love to my children is a manifestation of my love for Allah / God. Well when it was expected as there is no infidelity or persecution or blame each other of the two, because all realized on the basis of obligations only for Allah / God.Why do not all men are informed about the secret Jodoh? the answer is very simple, namely: not all men are ready and willing to live with the actual Jodoh. So just orang2 fitrahlah conditions that will be shown on the secret SOUL MATES, Why is that?because orang2 with kefitrahan soul mate will be more able to accept what is, according Fitrah / allotments should reply he received, and this is called the GRACE of God / God.Rahmatulloh / grace of God for orang2 who put value back Fitrah as life is not something tangible pleasure or whatever but it's just the beauty of its form, whatever its form if it is the grace of Allah / God is all good and true, as well as the Soul Mate.Now ready to run our nature and destiny as human beings who rely on the value of every Fitrah our life's journey? And we are ready to accept the choice Jodoh Allah / God though not always the choice of God / God according to our tastes?. Just ask ourselves, before God / God will mengkabulkan request us to understand our real Jodoh .....Why after Istiqaroh not get a response?If still no clue apa2, try making three nights. If there is no well, so-so taken steps to follow its own consideration or should we ask the opinion of learned men.BOTH ways, using a reasonable mind that God bekalkan to us.Here's how:1. Create your own consideration. Think the pros and cons of the many angles. We ourselves know better our situation compared to others.2. Ask the opinion of the elders, pious people, close friends, and close relatives who could be trusted.3. Talking to our friends that if fear and want to be safe from fitnah. While looking for the road, while knowing his personality.All three combined in this way God willing will produce a conclusion in us, until we have time for dating or not.Successful or not something of this affair, no one knows. No one can give an answer. We humans are all weak only capable of designing and running. The result remains in the hands of God.Importantly, we do not overlook the effort. Both kaedah described above were included in the endeavor. God love those who sought. If we strive earnestly, surely Allah gives the best for us. What are sisters now try actually included in the endeavor.We know, this match is not an easy matter. He will affect the hard-happy happy we suffer in the future. For a moment believe that if we hesitate a moment. It's a habit, it's nature. Other people were generally so well.One advice, make a solehah ourselves, God will present a pious soul mate to us
Fitrah: Pure
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